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Best Red – No Love Lost

April 28th, 2015 | Comments Off on Best Red – No Love Lost

Short takes on relevant sports and character issues.

scuffleThe NBA playoffs are here and not disappointing, delivering highlights and some of the best basketball from most of the best teams. Unfortunately, in two of the more lopsided playoff series, physicality is getting out of hand.


1. No Love Lost

Thankfully the the Dallas Mavericks vs. Houston Rockets series only experienced small, chippy moments from its Game 4 – Boston vs. Cleveland, on the other hand, was completely out of control. One ejection, two technical fouls, two unnecessary and unwarranted injuries, and three games lost to suspension.

NBA officials on and off the court are not to blame. The lowered standards of coaches and players are the real culprit. When respect for each other and the game take a backseat to “competitiveness,” “pride,” and other sports lingo masking players and coaches’ poor sportsmanship in losing efforts, the results are as ridiculous as burning down a CVS.


2. Riot Mom

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The tragic story of Freddie Gray and the subsequent Baltimore riots created an unexpected and interesting twist on Monday, when a mother of a young, masked rioter publicly reprimanded her son in front of the entire nation.

Mentors, coaches, teachers, and community leaders can never take the place of an involved parent.  If you are a contributing member of society, call your mother or father today and thank them. If you are not, you better hope your mother does not find out and humiliate you on national television.


3. Respect and Authority

Suspect Dies Baltimore
The increasing public displays of disrespect for officials in sports is a prophetic warning for a culture moving in the same direction. Consider how the world’s diminishing respect for authority will culminate in more and larger displays of violence like Ferguson to Baltimore.

It starts with a parent at the ballpark screaming obscenities at a little league umpire or dressing down a teacher for grading too harshly at a parent-teacher conference.

It continues with professional athletes using homophobic slurs towards the commissioner of their league and a congressmen shouting disrespectfully at the office of the President of the United States.

We can choose respect for each other and the authorities placed over us – especially when they make mistakes. Only then will we be in any position to affect change over the true injustices that are happening all around us.


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Beginnings End

March 5th, 2012 | Comments Off on Beginnings End

Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” – Dan Wilson

Like sports, life is a culmination of seasons.  Some are winning seasons – a birth, a wedding, a new job – worthy of celebrating and commemorating. Some are losing seasons – a funeral, a divorce, unemployment – of pain worthy of mourning.

Days, like games in these seasons are summed up in moments, decisions, and actions that ultimately determine our success or failure. Whether we win or lose.

Some of those pivotal moments are beyond our control, some of those critical decisions are not ours to make, and some of those actions are not our own.

Still. Each of us control how we respond to these moments, decisions, & actions.

Handling defeat is difficult.

Then again, so is handling victory.

However, I would argue that finishing well is the most challenging.

To me, finishing well is the disciplined commitment to a combination of humility, heart, and hustle that is unaffected by any predictable outcome. Simply put, finishing well is pure, neither blemished in defeat nor seduced by victory.

Too often athletes, entrepreneurs, artists, and students finish poorly for fear of failure. While others lose focus of the end, celebrating victories not yet earned.

Field goals are missed.

Putts lip out.

Upsets are possible.

Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may win.”      -Apostle Paul

Sometimes finishing well provides the opportunity to salvage or a steal a win.

And sometimes not.

But even in defeat, finishing well is never wasted. A game can never be replayed nor a day relived. Giving all that you have today is truly the only way to prepare for tomorrow. So finish well and leave the rest to destiny.

The Lead Block challenges players, coaches, and fans to always finish well. To find out how you can help us finish well this year in mentoring goals, click ABOUT.

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