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Best Red – No Love Lost

April 28th, 2015 | Comments Off on Best Red – No Love Lost

Short takes on relevant sports and character issues.

scuffleThe NBA playoffs are here and not disappointing, delivering highlights and some of the best basketball from most of the best teams. Unfortunately, in two of the more lopsided playoff series, physicality is getting out of hand.


1. No Love Lost

Thankfully the the Dallas Mavericks vs. Houston Rockets series only experienced small, chippy moments from its Game 4 – Boston vs. Cleveland, on the other hand, was completely out of control. One ejection, two technical fouls, two unnecessary and unwarranted injuries, and three games lost to suspension.

NBA officials on and off the court are not to blame. The lowered standards of coaches and players are the real culprit. When respect for each other and the game take a backseat to “competitiveness,” “pride,” and other sports lingo masking players and coaches’ poor sportsmanship in losing efforts, the results are as ridiculous as burning down a CVS.


2. Riot Mom

riot mom
The tragic story of Freddie Gray and the subsequent Baltimore riots created an unexpected and interesting twist on Monday, when a mother of a young, masked rioter publicly reprimanded her son in front of the entire nation.

Mentors, coaches, teachers, and community leaders can never take the place of an involved parent.  If you are a contributing member of society, call your mother or father today and thank them. If you are not, you better hope your mother does not find out and humiliate you on national television.


3. Respect and Authority

Suspect Dies Baltimore
The increasing public displays of disrespect for officials in sports is a prophetic warning for a culture moving in the same direction. Consider how the world’s diminishing respect for authority will culminate in more and larger displays of violence like Ferguson to Baltimore.

It starts with a parent at the ballpark screaming obscenities at a little league umpire or dressing down a teacher for grading too harshly at a parent-teacher conference.

It continues with professional athletes using homophobic slurs towards the commissioner of their league and a congressmen shouting disrespectfully at the office of the President of the United States.

We can choose respect for each other and the authorities placed over us – especially when they make mistakes. Only then will we be in any position to affect change over the true injustices that are happening all around us.


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Keeping Score

November 7th, 2011 | Comments Off on Keeping Score

In an era where performance-enhancing drugs, off-field legal issues, NCAA violations, and labor disputes dominate sports headlines, there is a simple solution.

As the NBA lockout approaches critical mass, there appears no end in sight. And despite NBA games evaporating, both sides continue to point fingers.

Fan loyalty and momentum from a great NBA postseason last winter slowly dwindles, while players and owners viciously compete over 2% in this labor impasse.

Keeping score is natural.

In an ESPN the Magazine article, Shaun Assael shared the story of a former alumni president of University of Memphis that sued Derrick Rose and John Calipari after the player and coach’s actions led to the Tigers being stripped of their 2007-08 season.

Both Rose and Calipari settled out of court and volunteered to return $332,000 in compensation to Memphis and one of their scholarship funds.

Keeping score is productive.

In the last few NFL seasons, Commissioner Roger Goodell instituted a policy for player behavior on and off the field. A policy that led to suspensions and fines for star players like Adam “Pacman” Jones, James Harrison, and Michael Vick.

Despite this controversial policy, the NFL is expected to generate 9 billion dollars this season and enjoy a level of fan devotion unprecedented in American sports history.

Keeping score is rewarding.

Keeping score in sports and in life is natural when we are winning. However, a more significant opportunity for reward and redemption is frequently found in acknowledging the score in a losing effort.

Michael Vick may never be completely forgiven, but even his critics cannot refute that he took responsibility for his actions. Nike and EA Sports each reconsidered their relationships following his acknowledging of his mistakes.

Alex Rodriguez may always be remembered for testing positive for performance-enhancing drugs, but few fans or sports writers are demanding the use of asterisks next to his batting records and career statistics.

Vick and A-Rod each benefited from holding themselves accountable.

They kept score of their mistakes, took responsibility for their circumstances, and moved forward in their lives and sports careers. Sadly, sports history is littered with many who never kept score compounding their losses even further.

At The Lead Block, players are challenged to keep score even in losing efforts of life and sports, because those are the best opportunities for developing personal accountability in their lives.

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Tough to Understand

October 24th, 2011 | 1 comment

[cue heavy sigh] Ndamukong Suh is one of a growing number of young players in professional sports that does not understand the true meaning of toughness.

On Sunday, Suh along with a Detroit Lion teammate, mocked injured Atlanta Falcons’ quarterback Matt Ryan as he writhed on the ground after suffering an ankle injury.

This was not a display of toughness.


Toughness IS NOT

mindlessly breaking rules designed to increase player safety.

insulting your opponent, fool-hearty fans, or any NFL authority.

allowing your frustration or emotions get the best of you.

instigating a physical altercation to “motivate” your teammates or coaches.


For players like Suh and James Harrison toughness and respect are apparently earned through brutal or excessive penalties and chest thumping in interviews and on-field antics. In reality, demonstrating true toughness is far more challenging.


Toughness IS

finishing a game injured.

showing restraint following a late hit or opponent’s taunt.

believing in yourself and your team when no one else does.

finishing games that are lost causes.


Toughness is an inner-strength that is outwardly apparent.

Hopefully, this is just a phase for Suh, who is both a gifted and dominant young NFL defensive star that could set a great example of true toughness for years to come.

At The Lead Block, we encourage and expect toughness from our players and create opportunities for those players to use that toughness in pursuit of their destiny.

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Best Red – In Search of Honor

October 14th, 2011 | Comments Off on Best Red – In Search of Honor

Every Friday, Best Red will list the best sports articles (or videos) of the week.

1. Woman of Honor
Courtesy of Jonathan Wall and Yahoo! Sports

Ignoring the storm this story creates, Mina Johnson deserves a moment of honor for putting her team before herself, regardless the circumstances.  Well done, Mina!

2. Philly Fans Strike Again
Courtesy of Greg Wyshynski and Yahoo! Sports

Snowballs at Santa, cheering injured players, and now booing a cancer ad? Demonstrating humility and honoring your opponent never seemed so smart.

3. Meanest Player in the NFL
Courtesy of Chris Chase and Yahoo! Sports

These are just for fun, but Sports Illustrated seems extra proud of their results for dirtiest player and meanest player. Why not ask who is the most respected player?


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